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Thursday, December 31, 2009

Kiss it Goodbye

Ten years ago I was living in Amsterdam, Holland.  I worked for EF Education and oversaw a high school exchange program.  During the week I worked hard, but on weekends and in my free time I played harder.  I lived alone on Westerstraat in a large apartment in a fashionable part of the city.  With no children, girlfriend, or other responsibilities, I lived the Life of Riley.  You can use your wild imagination as to how I entertained myself, but I am proud to say that I was never late to work (though I engaged in enough illicit activities to make that an impressive feat).



During the week preceding New Year's Eve, 1999, ten of my American friends (including the woman who would later become my wife) made their way to Amsterdam to celebrate the coming of the new millennium.  I recall a week of wandering the Red Light District, patronizing the numerous coffee shops, and eating some excellent meals.  On New Year's Eve itself the excitement in the streets was palpable.  The Dutch have a tradition of lighting off fireworks on NYE and by the early afternoon of December 31st, 1999 the sounds of popping firecrackers and flying Roman candles grew steadily by the hour.



By the time the 'pre-game' partying at my apartment finished up close to 10:30pm, the streets were filling with revelers.  We left in a group, the ten of us spread out in clusters of two or three.  As we wound our way toward Dam Square (our route in blue below), in the heart of the city, the crowds grew thicker, the buzz louder.  We crossed the first of four canals en route, Prinsengracht - just a few blocks from the Anne Frank House.  The throngs were building and our group closed ranks to stay together.  We crossed Keizersgracht, then Herrengracht, and lastly, Singel.  By now the crowds were as thick as molasses.  We held hands to keep from getting separated.  It was cold outside, but in the thick of the masses, body warmth was abundant.  By the time we mushed into Dam Square we were shoulder to shoulder with what must have been hundreds of thousands of people.  There was a stage with band and - what I am pretty sure wasn't a hallucination - a giant inflated chicken.


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Being tall, I could scan the wide breadth of the square and as far as I could see up and down Nieuwezijds Voorburgwal the street was absolutely teeming with people.  The only time any space opened up was when someone threw a brick of lit firecrackers in the air.  As they exploded above, a swath of space opened up below and we'd could see the flashes of light and hear the loud popping in a the circle that opened up around the sparks.  When the brick finished exploding, the opening would close right back up.  This happened, it seemed, every minute all around the square.  People sang, yelled, rode their friends' shoulders, and climbed the lampposts to dance upon them.

Because we were so tightly packed it was easy to hear the groups of people around us speaking.  I heard people speaking Dutch, Spanish, Russian and other Slavic tongues, French, and Portuguese.  And despite my altered state, I remember this clearly - everyone was as happy as could be.  It was crowded, cold, loud, and with the exploding fireworks, potentially dangerous.  No one that I could see was the slightest bit irked by the antics of the crowd.  As midnight neared, the crowed counted down the seconds, 3, 2, 1!  At the stroke of midnight, the square erupted in mighty glee.  Hugs, kisses, more fireworks, more music, more drinks, more smoke - and as much love as the city could emit.  We might have all been strangers - and strange - but to us it seemed that there was no where else on earth more elated to share that moment.

Our group spent the next four hours wandering the streets and the bars.  Many of us made calls back home to our families, where it was not yet the year 2000.  I remember trying and failing to stay awake until 6am to wish my family a happy new year at their midnight.  In the morning my living room resembled Jonestown with bodies strewn about the rug, under tables, and in corners.  Only the faint rise and fall of their chests told me they'd survived the evening.  My hangover lasted until February.

In the ten years that have followed, I've lived in Toronto (where I was on 9/11), Cambridge, Zurich, New York City, Long Beach, California, Salem, Massachusetts and now back in Connecticut.  I traveled thousands of miles - a hundred and fifty of them along the Appalachian Trail, got lasik surgery, married, bought our first home, adopted a son, lost another to still birth, declared bankruptcy, became a near vegetarian, ran a marathon, and turned 40 years-old.  As I pause now to look back on the blur that was the last decade there's much for which I am grateful and a few things that I could have most certainly done without. Mostly though,  I am proud of the life I've thus far lived. And as I look ahead to the as yet unknown trials and triumphs that the next decade will no doubt bring, I do so with the kind of humility that the past decade has taught me to always keep at the fore.

Happy New Year. Stay Gold.

Friday, December 18, 2009

The Funny Guy

Much to my own amusement....

When I was a young child an adult asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up.  I answered, "Either a head of lettuce or a smoking horse that plays football."  I remember being asked the question and knowing immediately that I wasn't going to answer with a 'real' response.  As soon as I was asked, I searched for an something to say that I thought would be funny.  A few years later when at a party with many adults, someone's father asked me a question and I answered, "I can't hear you, I have a banana up my ass."

My parents were - and are - appreciative of good humor.  I remember my mom taking me to Monty Python movies at von der Mehden.  I was probably one of only a few kids of my age at my school to be familiar with the Knights Who Say Ni.



I learned from the earliest of ages that to make people laugh was to endear myself.  I plied humor with scout leaders, teachers, and the lunch ladies.  I sometimes got in trouble for talking, but the risk of detention was worth the reward of the funny story later.  With plenty of encouragement from family and friends, I sought to amuse whenever I could.  I made silly faces, I said silly things, and I walked silly walks.



Though active, I didn't possess the coordination for many sports.  It didn't begin intentionally, but my athletic endeavors soon became fodder for my comedy. In soccer I tripped over the ball.  I remember a high infield pop fly landing squarely on my forehead.  When I ice skated my arms flailed as my skates went in different directions.  I ran funny, threw funny, and fell funny.  I soon realized that if others were going to laugh at me, I'd be better served by controlling the laughter on my terms.  I was, if you will, pre-emptively funny.  Part of my humor was related to my appearance.  I wore glasses that were often broken, taped, and crooked.  And despite my goofy appearance, or perhaps because of it,  I was popular, had many friends, and was well liked by teachers and staff.   My youthful efforts culminated my senior year of high school.  I'd gained the a solid reputation as a comedian and was appropriately selected class clown by my peers.

College was the perfect place for me to continue to hone my humor craft.  I had a whole new venue in which to ply my trade.  On the crew team I wore my pajamas to practice and tied a scarf in a bow on top of my head.  In my fraternity, I spoke freely and descriptively about taboo topics like excrement and masturbation.  I would intentionally draw attention to myself or others in public places by singing, dancing, or tripping.  When girls were around, I said silly things to make them laugh and eventually figured out how to turn giggles into kisses.

As I grew up, I increased my vocabulary, sharpened my wit, focused my sarcasm, and broadened my comedic range.  I learned how to use humor to charm, to lighten a heavy mood, to deflect criticism, and to get jobs.  As a waiter or a tour guide, I leveraged humor for tips.   Once I joined the ranks of an office employee, I measured the success of my day not in widgets sold, but in laughs gotten.  I am sure my humor didn't always further my career, but I derived far more satisfaction from getting a laugh then climbing the stodgy corporate ladder.  It didn't matter if I was at home, on a date, in a meeting, at a bar, or on the beach, I was always looking for the funny.

Several years ago, some friends of mine were running the Marine Corps Marathon in DC.  To help them spot us in the crowd of onlookers, we wore silly costumes.  We acquired a large afro wig much to their amusement.  But that one time wasn't enough.  I kept that wig for years, breaking it out regularly as much for others as for myself.  My friends and family came to know and love the wig.  I wore it to meet friends poolside at LA's swanky Mondrian Hotel.  I wore it at work for presentations.  I wore it at weddings, including my own.  When I left the wig behind at the reception, it was FEDEXed to me on my honeymoon.  I made the housekeepers try it on.















I also broke the wig out midway during a best man toast I was giving. The quality of the video isn't good, but the audio is adequate.  And while the toast was ostensibly for my friend, I think you can tell that I am the one reveling in the attention.



I turned 40 earlier this week and while I've matured somewhat, being 'the funny guy' is still something that I pride myself on.  I recently saw that the successful comedian Ricky Gervais didn't really launch his comedy career until he was 40.  Perhaps everything heretofore has simply been a prelude?

Friday, December 11, 2009

Foot Fetish



As many regular readers know, I began running in Vibram Five Fingers last summer, soon after reading Born to Run by Christopher McDougall.  VFFs simulate, very closely, barefoot running.  The category of shoe they fall into is labeled minimalist.  And those of us that subscribe to the theory believe that most traditional shoes or sneakers do us more damage than good.  For a deeper discussion of this issue, read Born to Run or start with this New York Times article.



Since most of us have been wearing shoes as long as we can remember, the concept takes some getting used to.  My feet, ankles, and calves also took some time to adjust.  Until I fully acclimated to the VFFs I interspersed training in my Adidas Supernovas.  Leading up to the Baystate Marathon this past October, I did about half my runs in the VFFs and half in sneakers.  Since the marathon I've 90% or more of my miles in VFFs.  But that was until the weather started getting colder.

Many months ago I joined a Minimalist Runner, a Google Group started by Barefoot Ted.  I soon realized that though I was new to minimalist running, there were many who'd been dedicated to the pursuit for years (to say nothing of the fact that humans have been running barefoot since, well, the dawn of our existence).  Knowing that there are other alternatives to VFFs I ("The Ringer") posted a question on the group bulletin board asking what I might consider wearing for winter minimalist gear.  I thought that it might offer an interesting window into the minimalist footwear subculture if I posted the replies I got to my query.  See below.




The Ringer  
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Hey,
I began running in VFFs last summer, but now it's 21 degrees out, snow
on the ground and today there are gusts of up to 40 MPH (I live in NE
Connecticut).  At least it's sunny outside.
I know I shouldn't admit it here, but I ran today in my Adidas
Supernovas (sacrilege, I know).  But seriously, what I can run in over
the winter, minimalist style, and not have my toes freeze off?!
The Ringer

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Harry Hollines  
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 More options Dec 11, 11:06 am
As most know, I'm a huge fan of the Mizuno Wave Universe 3's.  In fact,
they've replaced my VFFs.  For me, they are better than VFFs and I never
thought I would say that.  And, they get better as you put more miles on
them.  In snow, you can attach coil YakTraks.  In cold weather, you can put
heat packs on top of your toes and they don't interfere.  I've run in -17F
in them also.
Just my experiences.
Harry




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Tuck  
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 More options Dec 11, 11:26 am
My choice is a modified new balance mt100. the modification is to
remove the heel, it's covered in another thread here.
In a nutshell, just like a mitten is warmer than gloves...  we need
feet 'mittens' for the winter.




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G.O.  
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 More options Dec 11, 11:37 am
Hey Ringer I understand your dilemna!  For the moment I am wearing well worn
pair of Sauconys  while running outdoors with a pair of Gore-Tex socks
stuffed inside. I did not want to go this route but one very cold day of
running in minimal footwear quickly changed my mind and had me wondering
about my sanity.  As the weather gets colder and icier I will put duct tape
around the top of the shoe and switch to another old pair of shoes that have
screws drilled into the bottom for traction. This has worked well in the
past and has allowed me to run in conditions as cold as -56C ( with
windchill).   I plan to continue with this footwear regime until ( or if)  a
suitable pair of mukluks can be made. I am researching this possibility
before going out and buying all the materials as it is expensive and I heard
not all mukluks are suitable for running.
Gail
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Highlander  
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 More options Dec 11, 11:53 am
Primal moccasins. I review them in the various posts here (see the
bottom post for most detail):
http://shootthemoonforbraininjury.blogspot.com/search/label/primal%20moc
In short, with a  thin wool sock, I'm toasty down to -10F, -30+
windchill. They feel closer to barefoot than anything I've run in, and
they grip surprisingly well even on snow and ice (because they conform
to the minute textures, and if you're barefoot technique is good, very
little slipping except on steep trails where I slip in anything except
strapped on chains).
Blessings,
Patrick
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Andy Southerland  
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 More options Dec 11, 12:01 pm
How's the ski-skin prototype coming?
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John Sprocket  
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 More options Dec 11, 2:26 pm
I'm having trouble getting up the enthusiasm to go running in this
cold at all.
I enjoyed running all summer, and even enjoyed the Fall.  But come
winter I end up using the stationary bikes or elliptical machines at
the gym.
I just haven't found a way to enjoy the cold yet.  And it bothers me
some.
John
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Harry Hollines  
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 More options Dec 11, 2:46 pm
John,
Dig deep.  Make a small commitment to yourself to go out in the cold and
only commit to run 5-10 minutes (just 5-10 minutes out of your life), and I
doubt you will stop at 10 minutes.
Still to this day I use different methods to motivate myself.  This morning
I had one of my toughest combined interval & tempo training sessions and I
wanted to quit before it started and then I wanted to quit half way through
but then I kept saying "5 more minutes," and then I thought about all the
people in the world that don't have the opportunity to run or can't run in
save places, and then I thought about those folks that would be out-working
me if I did quit, and finally I said I can't be a hypocrite to my kids as I
constantly tell them not to quit so I can't.
There's many ways to get going but ultimately you have to commit to make the
first step after that each additional step gets easier.
Harry
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Tuck  
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 More options Dec 11, 3:13 pm
I actually prefer running in the cold.  The first few minutes are the
toughest, but once you warm up I think it's much nicer.  No bugs, and
no snakes. ;)  Running in the snow is the nicest of all, and running
in a snowstorm is heaven.
Takes a couple of tries to get the clothing combo right, but it's well worth it.




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Harry Hollines  
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 More options Dec 11, 3:30 pm
I just read this and it's fitting:
"You rarely regret the runs you do; you almost always regret the runs you
skip."
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